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While you are at the online dating stage with girls, text messaging is your main way of communication. This guide is compiled from real-life examples, conversation topics and tips to make her smile every time she reads your text.
Although chat with girls is much less stressful than making a phone call, it also has its own rules and etiquette. Now let's talk about this too.
There are 4 dominant keys to effective communication with girls. It is:
✅ playfulness, in a way to entertain;
✅ politeness (respect);
✅ genuine care.
Always keep this in mind and when you start to lean in the opposite direction, communication becomes strained.
Otherwise, all the time can be wasted. These are the downsides:
✖ sadness, longing;
✖ concern, despair;
✖ bad manners, tactlessness, rudeness;
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But also we have set up a new feature for our female clients: their popularity rate depends on how long they stay on-line. The most active and responsive ones get to the top list called “most popular girls”. This increases their chances to be noticed and find their love sooner.
In “Girls on-line” section you may find the most active girls willing to create a family. Online girls are interested in live chats and messaging. You have a unique opportunity to chat with a lady and get to know her better. You can ask questions that are important to you.
Starting a conversation is easy "Hi, I'm John. A pleasure to meet you..", or if you have in mind your own phrases just go-ahead. Chatting is similar to a live conversation, it helps you to get answers on the most essential questions. Girls and Guys easy discuss in a chat such topics that otherwise would make them feel shy or uncomfortable to ask on a date.
Too busy days: work, friends, gym, work again. How, at the same time, can you find time to get acquainted with a girl? Where is to meet her, what to talk about, etc, etc, etc...?
In fact, the Internet isn't much different from real life. Every girl appreciates the enjoyable conversation, compliments, the understanding that she is unique, special. Girls like to talk a lot, but who does not know about what? However, it can be difficult for men to figure out what to chat about with the girl and how to start a conversation.
Better if the very first message is informative and positive. Say "hello or hi" and introduce yourself shortly:
✅ "Hello, Yana! My name is Alexander. I saw your smile on the photo and decided to write."
✅ “Hi Olga, this is Jack. I would like to talk when you have time, don't you mind? "
Usually chat communication can be divided into two areas:
Stories (mostly about yourself) and Questions.
Don't ask direct questions such as:
✖"What's new?", ✖“What did you do today?”, ✖"What is your specialty?", and so on.
All the answers suggest that girl should report to you for the work done. It is sounds annoying, isn't it?
Examples of other unfortunate questions:
✖“Do you like to watch movies?”
✖“Do you like to receive presents?”
The answer to these questions is obvious, do you agree with that?
Ask your girlfriend questions that will cause emotions and as a result, encourage further communication
If a girl is interested, then she will start to write more often and informative, include more smiles (an indicator of a good mood).
Examples of open-ended questions:
✅ “Tell me, how did you choose your specialty?”
✅ "What brings you here?"
Most open-ended questions contain interrogative trigger words “how (do you think)”, “why”, “where”, “what”.
Tell interesting stories about yourself while chatting
To make your story exciting, there is a little secret. Tell your story emotionally. If it's funny, smile during the story. The girl will catch this wave and also will have fun.
If the story is simply exciting, then stop in the middle of the conversation, take a pause, keep the intrigue. Keep 2-3 funny stories in advance.
✅ “We had a situation at work here on Friday. I still laugh when I remember... "
1. Not all the questions should be open-ended. Some simple questions " yes-no" are also necessary too for a natural conversation.
2. Communication is a two-way road. It is abnormal if only a man keeps talking and asking, but a woman condescends to the answer and keeps silent.
If that happens in a live chat, it is worth considering what caused this.
There are can be several options:
๏ you two just start a conversation;
๏ her English is pre-intermediate level - she is trying to use short and simple words;
๏ she is busy right now and can't focus on a chat;
๏ she is interested in conversation with another man and not sure about you;
๏ she is just not good at conversation ;).
We do not recommend starting your acquaintance with a joke like: "Where did you dig up such a dress ?!" But when meeting new people, a little humor can help relieve tension and start a pleasant conversation.
✔ "I can't believe I've uploaded so many of my photos!" A little humor and self-mockery never hurt.
✔ Some kind of joke - for example, "I've personally come here to learn Russian or Ukrainian." Then ask the question - "So what is your secret goal?"
✔ “Do you happen to know a good sushi spot nearby? I don't know your country well, but I will need to invite you on a date when I arrive. "
✔ "Is there any question I shouldn't ask because you're sick of it already?"
Using the chat room you may discuss with girls some important subjects like:
✔ Her view on life now and after marriage;
✔ Girl desire to have more children and her view on their upbringing and education;
✔ Find out about her health condition and health condition of her relatives;
✔ Get to know woman’s habits and temper;
✔ Lady’s desire and ability to relocate and to get a job abroad;
✔ Her idea of sharing household chores with her husband;
✔ Girl’s desire to visit her homeland after moving to your country and its frequency.
No need to concentrate your attention on writing letters to the woman of your choice, use every opportunity to chat with her, when she is online! Chatting is a more effective way of communication and so similar to talking. The girl will be flattered if you read her profile in advance, what she is interested in, what she loves and will ask more specific questions.
It is also good to realize that live communication is not idle chatter for girls. Beauties are very fond of giving messages a certain meaning, embellishing it, and reading with intonation. To impress a girl, you need to translate your emotions through chat. Yes Yes! Girls will understand that. If your message is written with feelings, be sure, she will notice it. A girl will feel your indifference to her literally from the first message.
Dating girl online is such easy, fun, enjoyable! :)
✌ Hello. You have one interesting feature ... You seem to be both a serious and cheerful girl. Am I right?
✌ Hi. Wow, what a lovely dress! How did you choose it?
✌ Bonjour. Beautiful necklace! You have an authentic sense of style. I wish I can find a similar for my sister.
✌ Hello. It's a pleasure to meet you. I think you are a cheerful person. I like girls who know how to enjoy life. Or am I wrong?
✌ Hi. It seems to me that you are a sincere and charismatic girl. Am I right?
✌ Hello. Gorgeous photos. How did you develop such an amazing sense of style?