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For many, dating a girl can be quite a stressful experience. How do I start a conversation? What to ask her about? How to ask for a date? These questions plague many men of all ages. Fortunately, simple tips in this article will save you anxiety and make it easy to get to know your girlfriend. Dating sites have made the dating process much easier for us. Now you don't have to chase a pretty girl in a bar. You can enter the criteria of the ideal partner in the search engine of the dating site and in a minute choose among hundreds of profiles. And yet, you need a certain strategy for dating, even online.
While you are at the online dating stage with girls, text messaging is your main way of communication. It's easier to talk to a girl you like on the Internet than in real life. In a couple of clicks, you can find out everything about her: where she works or study, what she enjoys, what movies she watches, and what music she listens to. But what to write to her in the very first message to catch her attention?
This guide is compiled from real-life examples, conversation topics, and tips to make her smile every time she reads your text.
Although meet in the chat room with girls, no matter if it is brunette women, blondes, or redheaded ladies is much less stressful than making a phone call, it also has its own rules and etiquette. Now let's talk about this too.
Dating a girl online makes life much easier for many shy men. At least one important tool for a successful acquaintance immediately appears at your disposal - information. How to use it correctly? Be honest and confident. Men often worry about how they should behave when talking to a girl online. Indeed, when a meeting happens in real life, in addition to verbal communication, there are also facial expressions that reveal you as a person and speak of your intentions. What to do when communicating online? All the girls love to chat with a confident, educated, calm, well-mannered, open-minded person. At the beginning of an acquaintance, when two people still don't know what to expect from new communication, they, actually, may pay attention to every word in the dialogue.
There are 4 dominant keys to effective communication with girls. It is:
✅ playfulness, in a way to entertain;
✅ politeness (respect);
✅ genuine care.
Always keep this in mind and when you start to lean in the opposite direction, communication becomes strained.
Otherwise, all the time can be wasted. These are the downsides:
❌ sadness, longing;
❌ concern, despair;
❌ bad manners, tactlessness, rudeness;
Try not to chat with girls when you drunk, sad, or upset!
One of the saddest situations with acquaintances is dating in a state of intoxication or “upset” after a hard week, a difficult conversation with parents, a failed exam, dismissal from work, conflict with a current (or parting with the past) loved one. It is in this state that people make not very good choices. And then they may experience bouts of boundless trust in the one who will be the first to cheer and calm, just to distract from pressing problems.
Be mentally prepared for occasional setbacks.
Keep in mind: in order to meet your person, you may necessarily have to be disappointed and rejected several times. However, this shouldn't scare you! Remember: Fate favors only the brave. And courage is nothing more than a well-hidden timidity, which at the right moment of time is simply blocked and does not interfere with the implementation of the plan.
In the modern world, many young people meet online, but how do you know if your feelings are mutual? Or does the girl answer just out of politeness?
Internet communication is a great way to meet and constantly communicate with the opposite sex, even if you don't see the girl in real life. However, there is a significant drawback in online communication: correspondence cannot demonstrate the emotions of a person who is on the other side of the screen. Therefore, during the correspondence with the girl, the guy may not understand: does the girl have reciprocal feelings towards him? And does she have a desire to get to know him better? But, there are several characteristic features.
Of course, the first step in acquaintance should be shown by a guy. However, during further communication, a girl who is not indifferent to a man will periodically strike up a dialogue first, which means that she is really interested in futher communication. And, most likely, it will not mind if your connection moves to a new level.
Often, during an online chat, the girl can stop communicating for a couple of weeks, then reappears, as if nothing had happened. Such communication behavior indicates a dismissive attitude. If a girl writes to you regularly, even about little things, this indicates her great interest in communicating with you.
Girls always love to read "between the lines" and cannot do without hints. If she likes you, then the girl will surely inform you about it unobtrusively: through romantic emoticons and stickers, lyric music, and videos.
All the Slavic Women that join this website are actively willing to start a new page of their life. But also we have set up a new feature for our female clients: their popularity rate depends on how long they stay on-line. The most active and responsive ones get to the top list called “most popular girls”. This increases their chances to be noticed and find their love sooner.
In the “Girls on-line” section you may find the most active girls willing to create a family. Online girls are interested in live chats and messaging. You have a unique opportunity to chat with a lady and get to know her better. You can ask questions that are important to you.
A spontaneous acquaintance in everyday life more and more resembles archaism. Online dating is easier and quieter and yet still romantic.
There are a number of other undeniable benefits. Firstly, you can always easily get acquainted with the interlocutor. Secondly, in online chat, you can also use the maximum of your charm.
Here are some techniques you can use to meet a girl online.
The advice is simple: decide what kind of woman you are looking for, take the time to select suitable candidates, and write them at least once, but a lively phrase. Repeat the procedure if necessary. As they say, seek and find.
Starting a conversation is easy "Hi, I'm John. A pleasure to meet you..", or if you have in mind your own phrases just go-ahead. Chatting is similar to a live conversation, it helps you to get answers to the most essential questions. Girls and Guys easily discuss in a chat such topics that otherwise would make them feel shy or uncomfortable to ask on a date.
A natural and clear introduction always a good start.
Better if the very first message is informative and positive. Say "hello or hi" and introduce yourself shortly:
✅ "Hello, Yana! My name is Alexander. I saw your smile on the photo and decided to write."
✅ "Hi Olga, this is Jack. I would like to talk when you have time, don't you mind? "
✅ "You are so charming that I completely forgot what I wanted to ask you. By the way, my name is Michael."
✅ "I was so staring at you that I forgot to introduce myself. Let's try again!"
✅ "There are at least two people in this place who are lucky today. And this is us. Peter is my name and you?"
✅ "Today is such a wonderful day, isn't it? That is why I cannot leave you in a good mood. Let me introduce yourself first - Steven"
✅ "Hi, Jana! I am James. I must say that. One glance was enough for me to understand that we just have to meet again."
✅ "A gorgeous girl like you should have beautiful handwriting! Am I right?"
✅ "In life, I am missing two things - you and hair."
✅ "When I saw your pictures, I understand how good it is that I am still single!"
✅ "Today I finally realized why I signed up on this dating site."
✅ "When I grow old, I will remember the brightest moments of my life: the day my children were born, the day of my wedding, and the day when I met you."
✅ "Good evening! I'm going to make a salad for dinner. What do you think is the best souse for it?"
✅ "Excuse me, may I ask you - what are you planning to do for the rest of your life?"
✅ "Hello! Thinking about what movie to watch today. Which one impressed you lately?"
✅ "I looked at your picture in that blue dress and wanted to read you a novel, poetry, sing a song. Where should I start?"
Too busy days: work, friends, gym, work again. How, at the same time, can you find time to get acquainted with a girl? Where is to meet her, what to talk about, etc, etc, etc...?
In fact, the Internet isn't much different from real life. Every girl appreciates the enjoyable conversation, compliments, the understanding that she is unique, special. Girls like to talk a lot, but who does not know about what? However, it can be difficult for men to figure out what to chat about with the girl and how to start a conversation.
Rate your profile on the website carefully. Surround it with an aura of success, mystery, and intrigue. Upload photos that will show your best. Girls appreciate it.
It is recommended to upload pictures where you:
✅ with the family (parents, sisters, and brothers, cousins, children, relatives);
✅ at a concert, theater, exhibition, museum, seminar;
✅ do sports (snowboard, bike, football, etc);
✅ with animals, especially with pets;
✅ at work and holidays
Make sure that the girl does not perceive you as egocentric, concerned only with herself and her own reputation.
Better don't upload such type of pictures:
❌ against the background of expensive cars;
❌ selfie at breakfast, lunch, and dinner;
❌ after the shower, with lack of clothing;
❌ with cigarettes, alcohol.
Show your personality, talk about hobbies, interests, and share quotes from books you read. Educated, erudite men are very attractive.
Women love variety. If you can surprise a girl, you will definitely attract her attention. The sent song will begin to associate the girl with you. And when she hears the song somewhere, she will remember you. Some pictures, videos, films, articles - all of this can diversify your communication and make it truly interesting.
Usually, chat communication can be divided into two areas:
Stories (mostly about yourself) and Questions.
Examples of open-ended questions:
✅ “Tell me, how did you choose your specialty?”
✅ "What brings you here?"
Most open-ended questions contain interrogative trigger words “how (do you think)”, “why”, “where”, “what”.
Tell interesting stories about yourself while chatting
To make your story exciting, there is a little secret. Tell your story emotionally. If it's funny, smile during the story. The girl will catch this wave and also will have fun.
If the story is simply exciting, then stop in the middle of the conversation, take a pause, keep the intrigue. Keep 2-3 funny stories in advance.
✅ “We had a situation at work here on Friday. I still laugh when I remember... "
1. Not all the questions should be open-ended. Some simple questions " yes-no" are also necessary too for a natural conversation.
2. Communication is a two-way road. It is abnormal if only a man keeps talking and asking, but a woman condescends to the answer and keeps silent.
If that happens in a live chat, it is worth considering what caused this.
Ask your girlfriend questions that will cause emotions and as a result, encourage further communication
If a girl is interested, then she will start to write more often and informative, include more smiles (an indicator of a good mood).
No need to concentrate your attention on writing letters to the woman of your choice, use every opportunity to chat with her when she is online! Chatting is a more effective way of communication and so similar to talking. The girl will be flattered if you read her profile in advance, what she is interested in, what she loves, and will ask more specific questions.
It is also good to realize that live communication is not idle chatter for girls. Beauties are very fond of giving messages a certain meaning, embellishing it, and reading with intonation. To impress a girl, you need to translate your emotions through chat. Yes Yes! Girls will understand that. If your message is written with feelings, be sure, she will notice it. A girl will feel your indifference to her literally from the first message.
Dating a girl online is such easy, fun, enjoyable! :)
If the first phrases are over, the girl answered you, and the acquaintance seems to have taken place, then it is necessary to maintain mutual interest. For this, it is very important to choose the right topic of communication that will be pleasant and interesting for both of you. The most optimal topics for maintaining a conversation are questions about the events of today or this week; plans for the coming weekend (sometime after the start of communication, it will be appropriate to discuss joint plans); memories or funny stories from childhood; common interests and hobbies; a story about yourself and your events (for example, over the past week). You can discuss together the menu for the week, a new recipe, new exercises for the back or press, news (it's better to avoid politics here), the weather, classic literature, new jokes, study languages together, discuss new films and music.
Don't ask direct questions such as:
✖"What's new?", ✖“What did you do today?”, ✖"What is your specialty?", and so on.
All the answers suggest that girl should report to you for the work done. It sounds annoying, isn't it?
Examples of other unfortunate questions:
✖“Do you like to watch movies?”
✖“Do you like to receive presents?”
The answer to these questions is obvious, do you agree with that?
There are can be several options:
We do not recommend starting your acquaintance with a joke like: "Where did you dig up such a dress ?!" But when meeting new people, a little humor can help relieve tension and start a pleasant conversation.
✔ "I can't believe I've uploaded so many of my photos!" A little humor and self-mockery never hurt.
✔ Some kind of joke - for example, "I've personally come here to learn Russian or Ukrainian." Then ask the question - "So what is your secret goal?"
✔ “Do you happen to know a good sushi spot nearby? I don't know your country well, but I will need to invite you on a date when I arrive. "
✔ "Is there any question I shouldn't ask because you're sick of it already?"
Using the chat room you may discuss with girls some important subjects like:
✔ Her view on life now and after marriage;
✔ Girl desire to have more children and her view on their upbringing and education;
✔ Find out about her health condition and the health condition of her relatives;
✔ Get to know a woman’s habits and temper;
✔ Lady’s desire and ability to relocate and to get a job abroad;
✔ Her idea of sharing household chores with her husband;
✔ Girl’s desire to visit her homeland after moving to your country and its frequency.