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Dating Over 35—Dos and Dont's of Dating in Your 35s

Last updated on October 19, 2021

  When we speak about dating over 35 we should admit there is a big difference between lady’s and gentleman’s sides of the process. The most common question we get from women over 35 – if there is any chance to meet a man for them and if we can help to find the match for their age group.

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Meet Women After 35

  Really, when the woman is over 35 and is single now it means she has already been into relationships and she has kids, bitter memories, and the thought she can’t compete with younger ladies without kids. Or she has never been married but she started to understand that her time was ticking and if she wanted to have family and kids, she should hurry up. Both views can cause mistakes in choosing partners and this will not help in creating happy relationships. 

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Dating Women in Their 35s

  While from the man’s side age over 35 means he has already achieved certain progress in his business, social life, and now he is ready to start serious commitment. Really, men in this age have the biggest choice of ladies who will be interested to start dating with them, and this can be both younger and elder ladies. The most common mistake here – the man wants to choose the sexiest and the most beautiful lady, forgetting that happy family life depends on the inner characteristics of the person as well. 
  Actually, dating online women in their 35s are easy -  the man should be sincere in his wishes and intentions. Women in their 35s have special intuition for lies, they feel the truth and lies well.
When dating a woman over 35, more likely you will have to deal with her kids. Of course, every life situation is unique, some men do not mind kids, others take them as an invincible obstacle for future family life. You should know that in healthy family relationships you will not be able to score out lady’s kids, they will get the same care, protection, and support you will give to your wife. If this embarrasses you at the beginning of relationships, you should think twice before starting dating ladies with kids. 

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Dating in Your 35s After Divorce

  When you start dating in your 35s after a divorce, try to understand what mistakes you made in your former family life. Yes, your ex is a witch;), but psychologists say each partner has his 50% of fault in the parting. If you look back and understand your own mistakes, this will help you to avoid them in your future relationships. 
  If you have kids, remember that they are suffering from your divorce more than you and your ex. Do not hurry to get them acquainted with your new date, do not say any bad words towards their mother but do not hide that you want to be happy with a woman one day. Such a simple attitude will help you to avoid kids’ jealousy towards your new spouse in the future. 
  Do not worry that over 35s dating has special difficulties or all decent ladies of your age are married already - it is a gross exaggeration to say that. Dating over 35s can become the source of harmony, happiness, and huge changes for the better in your life. You are a mature person now, who knows his weak and strong sides, who has experience in interaction with females, and who has his life goals. You are in an age that combines the advantages of gained experience and strong abilities. Now you know what qualities in your woman are a must for you and you are able to provide your family and take care of the lady you choose. Your main difficulty now is to find a lady who is also interested in dating and who matches you well. If you look around and do not see such a lady, trying online dating can be a good option. 

Dos and Dont's Dating in Your 35s

Dos
✅  Be clear about what you are looking for. Past relationships will have given you a lot of intelligence on what you don’t want. Use this to discover what you really want! Some people find it useful to write down the things they desire on a potential date and focus on these!
✅  Branch out from your usual type and date new people. Maybe your usual type is the very reason you’ve not found love yet! Focus on the inner traits and allow yourself to date outside your romantic comfort zone
✅  Ditch the dating rules! You know the ones, wait a few days to call, don’t make the first move, hold off kisses on the first date. Throw these out of the window! You are then more likely to make a connection. However, make sure you are not too needy and that the other person wants that kiss!
✅  Think about your body language and be confident (but not arrogant)! While this can be hard it can make all the difference. This could be the missing piece you’re looking for! A cheeky smile and a relaxed body attitude can help you find true love!
Don’ts
❌  Don’t focus on age! Dating in your thirties means it is time to focus more on personality traits and less on age or appearance. Love does not have an expiration date so all you need to do is take a breath, consider all of your options, and don’t focus on your age…..or theirs!
❌  Don’t ignore your intuition or the ‘signs’. We have all been in relationships and ignored those ‘red flags’ that tell us we should leave and stayed in a relationship we should have left. Listen to your heart and follow your instincts!
❌  Don’t put too much pressure on yourself….or your date! Don’t make each date the ‘one you are going to marry. While you should make it clear you are looking for commitment, in the long run, you should definitely ensure you don’t add pressure to you both!
❌  Don’t look for perfection in an imperfect world! We have all had the idea that there is someone perfect out there, especially in our 20s. Don’t set such high expectations that they will never be met by others or found by you!

 

7 Rules for New Date After a Divorce 

  It is not easy to get ready for a date even when you are young - there is so much excitement and fuss around. What can we say about meetings with men after 35 or after a difficult divorce? Read these simple rules and quickly return to life, romantic, confident, and beautiful.

1. Don't Wait too Long

  You've probably heard that you need to "move away" from a relationship exactly half of the time that you were in it. That is, if the marriage lasted 6 years, it takes 3 years to get used to doing without an ex. Modern psychologists believe that this is the wrong formula and the period is too long, they say, six months is enough to recover from a long relationship. It is important to understand that a date is just a beginning, a test, a meeting does not have to end with something solid. You can and should go to them just like that, for fun and in order to feel like a person again, charming, romantic and desirable.

2. Use Online Services

  According to the latest research, more than a third of married couples met online, on services like slavic-girl.com. This did not affect the statistics of divorces in any way, that is, the chance to meet the same one on the network is equal to the chance to meet in real life. Make your profile easy, not overly detailed. "Yes" to information about your athletic performance, "No" to details about past relationships. And still don't take your interlocutors too seriously, communicate, have fun.

3. Reveal Yourself

  You never thought that you would become the “that person” in sweatpants, in an unfresh T-shirt with disheveled hair. And don't become! Forget the embarrassing moments of marriage and remember yourself before. Think back to the moments when you wanted to look good, meet friends, watch fashion movies, embroider, at last, or do some other favorite hobby. If it's appropriate, pay attention to your career, but don't get lost in it. So that you still have time for yourself ... and then, perhaps, for someone else.

4. Don't Go Into Details

  While speaking, do not focus on the time when you were not free. And you definitely shouldn't describe how awful your ex was. Firstly, you don't need negativity, secondly, a former relationship is not the best topic for new communication, and thirdly, our brain has a habit of rewriting information from the past. The time when we were good is wonderful in every detail, and we try to present a marriage that ended sadly as tragic from the very beginning. But this is not so, and you were happy. Over time, you will remember that period and put everything in its place, but now just do not discuss it with unfamiliar people.

5. Think Twice Before

  It is not at all about the moral aspect. Rather, imagine in advance, what feeling you will have for a new acquaintance in the morning. The hormones released during sex can make you a little happier for a while, but the mental frustration over time can worsen the situation you are in. If you imagine the morning and it seems to you quite pleasant, then why not?

6. Don't Introduce Children

... until you feel like your relationship with your new special person is really serious. Let you have two states for a while: parent and single. Give your child (or children) enough attention and love. But don't forget about yourself. Accept any help from loved ones. If you decide that the time to meet has come, do everything very gradually. First, talk to your child in detail about how your life is changing now, and about a new acquaintance, answer all the baby's questions and only then discuss a real meeting with your chosen one. For the first time, let it be a crowded place, a cafe, or a zoo, from there you can leave as soon as you feel the child's need for it.

7. Don't Compare

  Over the years of living with one person, you might get used to character traits, temperament, this is normal. But you must understand that there are no identical people, and your new chosen one will be completely different. Comparing these two is inevitable, but don't get hung up on that. Over the years of marriage, you have changed, your needs changed, and what kind of person you are looking for either. Try going out on a date with someone you can't imagine living with at all. If you've always liked freelance artists then meet a lawyer. Try to spend time in different places, in a cafe, at a climbing wall, playing, walking, in general, enjoying life and the new things that it offers you. 

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Best Dating Sites for 35-year-olds

  Slavic-girl.com is one of the best online dating sites for 35-year-olds in Eastern Europe and we can help you to find your lady. Like many other dating sites over 35s, we suggest different ways of choosing the lady and further communication with her. Though we work with single people from 18 till 88, our main clients are ladies and gentlemen over 35. Why? Because we are a dating site for those people who are ready for a serious commitment. People over 35 know what kind of partner they want to find and men start looking for ladies for serious dating and future family life. We are sure that Ukrainian ladies can become the best wives ever;)) That is why we are considered to be one of the best European dating sites for 35-year-olds.
 35 plus dating sites can help you to meet the lady you might be interested in. But all further success or failure of your dating process will depend on how effective you can act in creating your relationships. Do not let any failures upset you. With each date or online chat, you start being more successful and effective if you observe what your actions and words lead to the result you have. Our matchmakers can give you a clue how to act with ladies, feel free to ask for help if you need it. Start here at https://slavic-girl.com and get a small present from us to begin communication with your future wife at once!

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Frequently Asked Questions about Dating Over 35

❤️  Is 35 too Old to Date?

Of course, not!;) You can’t be too old for dating if you have a wish to date! Unlike many other dating agencies, we do not have age limits for our lady clients. And you know what? Dating and marriage for a 60 years old lady and 80 years old man are rather common. So when you think about being old at 35 or at any age, you put your own limits on your life. Stop doing that;) Start dating beautiful ladies with our help! Register here and get free chat minutes to start talking to the lady of your dream!

❤️  Is Being Single at 35 Normal?

Modern life dictates many changes in our views and world perception. Maybe 200 years ago being single at 35 was a tragedy and exception. Now it is normal, you are mature but you still have all your life ahead and now it is the best time to find your lifetime partner! But if you feel you want to concentrate on your carrier or other goals, you will still have time to start your family later.

❤️  What is an Acceptable Age to Date?

An acceptable age to date depends on your national and family traditions. Now, when young people are often free from parental guidance, they forget about responsibility in relationships. But relationships are not about getting, it is also about giving. You have to be mature enough for a healthy exchange with your partner. And this maturity will not depend on your age. Listen to your inner guidance when you have enough time, energy, and desire to start dating.

❤️  Is 35 a Middle Age?

According to the classification of the World Health Organization in 2020, 35 is a young age and the group of middle-aged adults starts at 40. You still have 5 years to enjoy youth!
 

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