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Dating Over 30

Last updated on September 20, 2021

  Well, that would be strange to have the mind and brains of a teenager when you are in your 30s. Have you noticed that your life has changed a lot? That is a natural process of wise nature, pushing us to perfection;) So do not feel sad about the years that are gone, appreciate the advantages of the age you have now. 

In the Article "Dating Over 30"

Dating Women Over 30

  Yes, dating women in their 30s is different. Something became easier, something – harder. 
Over 30s dating is easier as you now have more control over your emotions, more picky and rational and this means it is harder to take advantage of you. Dating over the 30s can be more difficult as usually mature people have the sad experience of broken relationships before - surely, such experience has made you wiser but also there can be trust issues. You can be afraid of possible pain and do not let your date take her place in your heart because of such fears. This issue is very typical if you try dating in your 30s after divorce. But you know, those people who have faced bad times, later appreciate life presents more, and crisis not only teaches us severe life lessons but stimulates our personal development. 

  • Anyone left in 30 without a couple is likely to have experienced some kind of misfortune: the partner left, cheated, or died. But it's time to leave the past behind. You shouldn't talk on a date about how your ex cheated on you for three years, and you didn't notice until everything became completely obvious. Forget about it! Everyone has their own skeletons in the closet, but this is not a reason to put them in the public. Yes, your past made you who you are now, but it does not define the present and the future. Instead, focus on what is happening right now and where you are going.
  • When you go through a series of unsuccessful relationships, a natural defense mechanism kicks in: if you do not let people close, they will not be able to hurt you. But if you avoid closeness, you won't be able to find a match. When the time comes and you meet a person with whom you will have reciprocity, remove the protection. Be vulnerable. If you are worried about this, tell yourself that everything will be okay. You know it will.
  • It's easy to get bored and sad after 30: you have had so many failed relationships that you no longer believe in a different outcome. It's important not to give in to negative thoughts. If you think it won't work, it will not work. Try to think positive. Don't show your frustration when you meeting a new person. You don't know how things will turn out, so give it a shot. Also, avoid being overly candid. On a second date, you better shouldn't say that you want three children and have already chosen their names. That definitely can scare everyone away.
  • When you're in your 30s, it's easy to get hung up on things that you still don't have. You are not married, you do not have a wonderful home and children. It's okay to want it all. But it is not worth every new acquaintance to arrange interrogation with prejudice in order to understand whether he is worthy to become the father of your children. Have fun and get to know the person better. If you're not having fun in a relationship, it's meaningless regardless of age. Relationships don't have to be work and depression. They should be filled with joy, care, and love - either at 23 or at 46.

What Women Think About In Their 30s 

  • When you are in your 20s, one red rose and champagne can be the reason to create a family. Well, even the phrases “you have beautiful eyes” and “I've been waiting for you all my life” performing just well. In your 30s, the courier with amazing lilies is not a surprise at all. No, it's magical, of course, but ... A huge bunch of greens for salad or fruits from the grocery store will make your day.
  • When you are 20 - it's so much easier. When a man is telling: "I'm tired of being perfect for everyone, I want to be perfect only for you, baby" - and she melted, he's so gorgeous! 
  • Earlier, in her youth, the girl might like it when the guy sometimes disappeared. It's mysterious and exciting. But after 30 a woman doesn't notice someone who is gone. And someone who makes every single thing difficult, and the one who disappears without any notice. When you are older, you don't want to solve such puzzles.

Now, in your 30s you know yourself so well that you can feel the wrong person by the first line in the chat, you guess the incompatibility from the first word.

  • In her youth, a girl wants her boyfriend to admire, how she can do everything, no worse than men. And after 30 she needs more down to Earth man: so he can make a decision, fixes the lock, opens the bank.
  • In her youth, a girl wants a guy to take her to an ultra-modern place, but now in her 30s, she is terribly attracted by the offer: "Let's go and have a tasty meal. " And so sexy when a man is cooking dinner, even something very simple. Even navy-style pasta, not to impress, but because she loves it.
  • In her youth, a girl likes fashionable guys, but later fashionable ones are alarming. Especially if they are in jeans-tights and with a forelock. Impudent. Brr. Closer are those in clean cotton clothes. Soft clothes are so nice to hug. 
  • Instead of old attractive scum, tender fathers touch the heart. Instead of perfectly shaved - bearded and with tattoos. Instead of sparkling ones, those who are ironic. And also those who live with mom no longer seem cute.
  • Previously, those who say: "Sex is not the main thing" - were considered polite princes, and now they cause serious suspicions ...
  • Sexy, when it is fun and simple, sexy when a person is smart, sexy when he is not offended, and when he is honest, it’s very sexy. Even loyalty among aphrodisiacs soared to the top with age. And if a person is close to the goal of raising grandchildren, then there is generally fire!
  • All sorts of little things like "he walking around the house in socks and underpants", its somehow ceased to be so striking. 
  • One thing has not changed: it's still romantic and fun to hug on a bench in the park. True, you have to come with your blanket and expensive wine. And then call a taxi, because driving drunk at our age is not sexy at all.

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Tips for Dating Over 30s

 Some tips may help you to overcome your fears and inspire you to seek your love.

1. Take Your Time

Do not try to start dating the next day after divorce. You will not be able to choose the proper partner as you are still overwhelmed with negative emotions. And the wrong partner will only bring more mess to your life.

2. Try Not to Be Demanding

Of course, all of us want to find a special match. But to find a perfect princess you should be a perfect prince yourself. Are you? People shouldn't be together just because they see each other as more or less acceptable options. Such a relationship will be unhealthy and will not last long. However, you shouldn't wait for the fairytale prince either. You are not perfect, so stop looking for the perfect partner.

3. Be Honest but Do Not Trust Blindly

Don't try to pretend to be someone else. You can't pretend forever, so acknowledge who you are and be yourself. Confidence attracts.

Good communication plays a key role in any relationship, whether with your best friend or with a work colleague. When you are in your 30s, you must communicate honestly and openly on dates. Your partner should behave the same way. The first fight happened? Discuss it in an adult way. If you don't start discussing the relationship early on, it will get harder later on.

But do not be suspicious as well! Act with your date like with the lady whom you can trust but if she betrays your trust, make your conclusions.

4. Do Not Tell Long Stories about How Awful Your Ex Was

You can mention the sad experience but a decent and responsible man would not blame his ex for everything.

5. While Dating Inspire the Lady to Talk about Her Life and Listen Attentively ;)

You will be surprised how well you can understand the woman after the first date.

6. Dating Women Over 30 is Easier

As well as you, your date knows what kind of man she wants, which qualities are important for her and which not. She will not be shy to tell you about her needs and share her opinions with you. A mature lady will not pretend she is the woman you want to see and will not hide her nature. Yes, you both are smarter now and in 2-3 dates, you will know if you want to continue or not. 

7. There Are Not Many Singles After 30

Your friends say that all lovely ladies are married already and you can’t find one? That is no true, best dating sites for 30-year-olds usually have more single ladies than men so you will have a good chance to find your love there.

8. Online dating sites for 30-year-olds

  Try online dating even if you haven’t done that before. Now your life is settled down and that is more difficult to meet new people. Dating sites for over 30s can help you to get acquainted with ladies whom you would never have a chance to meet without a net. 
30 plus dating sites unite single people who are eager to create new relationships and start dating again. So you will not have any doubts about the goals of ladies there -  all of them have a wish to meet a good man and forget about the sad experiences in the past. 
 How to choose the best online dating sites for 30-year-olds? Actually, all dating sites have a search engine where you can choose the age of the ladies you are interested in. So also check other possibilities of the site – does it suggest local dating or dating in a special country you might be interested in? Does it have clients’  feedback with real stories of success? Does it give any anti-scam guarantees to its members? 

9. Choose the proper age of your date

Of course, that is so tempting to start again with a younger partner. But if you are from different generations, sooner or later this will cause problems even if you are madly in love at the beginning of relationships.

 Good luck with finding your partner! And we are always ready to help you (wink) Register here, get a small surprise from our team to start communication right now!

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Frequently Asked Questions About Dating After 30

❤️  Is Dating Harder in Your 30s?

Dating in your 30s is not harder, it is different than in your 20s;) Anyway, you have other needs and goals now, you are more confident and you have less time. You know what you want from life and what kind of lady can make you happy. You are immune to emotional swings and manipulations now. So start courting the lady you choose - now you know how to do that, don’t you?

❤️  How Is Dating Different in Your 30s?

When you are single in your 30s and want to change that, obviously you will be pickier and you will act in a relationship according to your experience in the past. If that experience was destroying, take care of minimizing its influence on you – go to see a psychologist or read some books about relationships. Now you know what to suggest to your lady and how to care about her. Make a habit to discuss what you want and what you need in relationships – now you are able to do this.

❤️  Is It Okay To Be Single in Your 30s?

It is okay to be single in your 30s. You, only you, decide what is comfortable for you and what kind of life you want to choose. But if you want to create a family and have kids, that is high time to think about a reliable partner. Family is a long project and you will be busy with it for the next 20 years. So start now to be able to enjoy your kids’ adulting to the fullest.

❤️  Where to Meet Singles in Your 30s?

Life has many ways to make you meet your love. But if you want to control that process and you do not trust the intentions of destiny, try a matchmaking service or Internet dating. Maybe in spite of this, you will fall in love with your new neighbor but being active in your search is a good way to make hints to your destiny;)