Last updated on September 8, 2021
“Love all ages yield surrender”
Do you still believe that online dating is for young people only? We can tell you a big secret – our senior clients are more successful than younger ones. Why? For the first, they know well what they really want in life, for the second their life experience has turned into life wisdom to let them make the right choices at the right time. And last but not least – we know how to make online dating for seniors easy and comfortable both for men and ladies. That is not a theory – we have already helped hundreds of people over 60 to find their love and happiness. Do you want to become one of them and change your lonely evenings to enjoyable romantic ones? Then join us! You can feel you are needed, loved, and cared for again!
You can feel you are the hero in the eyes of your beloved woman and your house can get that special woman’s touch! Welcome to exciting trips together and romantic dinners, Christmas presents, new hobbies, new culture, new friends, new family members, cooking together, waking up from the kiss, and falling asleep hugging your Slavic Woman. You can continue this list and we are here to help you to find that pretty woman who is going to change your life!
Of course, online dating for seniors has its particularities. Sometimes it is not easy to start because life has taught you to be very careful. We hope to inspire you with such a brave step! If you have already decided to join us, click "JOIN NOW" and skip the information below.
According to statistics, 35% of couples officially registered their marriage after online dating. Serious relationships (even when you are senior) are possible if you consider virtual resources as a search for the right person and do not get hung up on empty correspondence.
It is not always decent to approach strangers on the street, and it is not very safe either. Plus, you may be misunderstood. On the Internet, things are a bit different. We can "walk up" to each other without getting up from the couch. Awesome, hah?
While talking online, it is recommended to behave the same way as in real life. Use your photos and include real hobbies and interests. The person should be interested in you, and not idealize the invented image.
The first conversation is like a free essay at school, when you simultaneously talk about everything, but also about nothing in particular. You can chat about everything in the world, but it is better to meet topics that are most interesting to the interlocutor. By talking, you can get to know the person better, especially if you are talking in voice chat or video chat. What can you talk about?
Standard topics for conversation:
Define and follow your dating goals. Some people see social networks as an opportunity to pour out their hearts, dump the burden of accumulated problems. Many go to virtual reality in order to somehow diversify their unsuccessful family life. If you don't want to be someone's free psychologist or sex partner for one night, make it clear.
Try to read information about a person from the first phrases. It is recommended to pay attention to the literacy of the interlocutor. Two or three random mistakes can be missed, mistakes are common for everyone. But serious spelling problems can indicate that you have an immature student under someone else's photographs.
If a person immediately brings down all the information about yourself at you and starts complaining about work, the weather, etc., think about whether you need such a pessimist. Respect yourself and value your time.
Do not drag out the correspondence. Offer to meet as soon as you feel like you have common topics of conversation. In reality, it is much easier to determine the character of the person you met. You should be alerted by the desire of a person to meet in a deserted place or in an apartment. For safety reasons, make an appointment in neutral territory, in crowded places (cafes, cinemas, etc.). Be sure to tell loved ones where you are going and with his/her name and number. Do not consider online acquaintance and subsequent meetings as some kind of fateful event. Turn on your mind. Imagine that you are an employer looking for a reliable business partner.
At the meeting, pay attention to any little things: appearance, manners, etc. The financial side plays a significant role. According to the norms of etiquette, a man must pay all bills. However, with an agreement, you can divide the finances equally. A signal for the immediate termination of any contacts may be a request to borrow some money. If a person, during an online correspondence or meeting, begins a conversation with the fact that he or she urgently needs money (for travel to your city, for example, on the way back, for the treatment of a cat/grandmother, etc.), this in most cases means that in front of you is a swindler.
If everything went smooth and a spark of mutual attraction immediately runs between you — amazing! If this does not happen, do not be discouraged. Don't be limited to one meeting. Ideally, three to five dates are enough to determine the need for a next step or not with a specific person. Spiritual intimacy, as a rule, comes much later.
Here are the main doubts and difficulties our senior clients share with us and tips on how to overcome them:
Psychologists offer a number of guidelines to help you choose the right tactics for your first dates. Often at the beginning of a new relationship, people try to play some kind of game in which they try to present themselves as better than they really are. Experts, however, recommend not to be sprayed and not to work for a certain image, which is not particularly peculiar to you. Flirting should be appropriate. There are several principles that are worth paying attention to and putting into practice so that new relationships develop like clockwork.
First of all, you need to understand yourself. And this applies not only to emotionality but also to sexuality. After all, if you do not know how to understand yourself, it is strange to expect that others can understand you.
When communicating on a date, you need to very soberly evaluate everything that the interlocutor says. Do not obsequiously catch every word. It is equally not necessary to question all statements. Psychologists also recommend believing what people show or say about themselves. For example, you should take a closer look at a person's behavior in order to understand how he treats you. If a person is chronically late or fails you even on trifles, this indicates that your interests and time are not particularly important. If you are not ready to accept a partner like that, it is worth telling it.
Remember that there are a number of taboo topics that should not be brought up at the beginning of a relationship (and, perhaps, later too). One such topic is talking about exes. No person will like being compared to others. And not everyone is pleased to hear your memories. From a series of forbidden topics and dreams of the future. Joint. Those. do not immediately stun a new partner who is just looking at you with your statements that you will have a strong marriage and twenty grandchildren. Few can withstand such pressure.
Also, psychologists recommend not to rush into new love relationships from the very first meetings. Even if you are already over 40, you still should not throw yourself into a passionate embrace on the very first evening. This can become a rather serious disappointment - suddenly you do not fit each other (after all, you have not yet had time to get to know each other better in order to understand the desires and preferences of your partner), suddenly something in the morning, for which you are not psychologically ready yet, will disappoint you and etc. Naturally, there are exceptions to the rule. However, in most cases, research has shown that relationships that start in bed are not long-term.
If you feel that you very often, even though the candy-bouquet period is underway, have to give in and make compromises, such a relationship is also difficult to call normal. Do not ignore alarming signals, do not try to drive into a far corner the idea that this is temporary, and then your partner will change. If at the meeting you'll feel some sort of grinding and he or she already allows himself such behavior, this means that then it is unlikely to be corrected.
And one more thing — the 60s is not the age of sunset of your life anymore. Usually, that is the age when your rich life experience filled you with wisdom but you still have a wish and possibility to enjoy life to the fullest. You have already created and developed your business or your professional carrier. That means you are comfortable with the financial side of life. Ladies of all ages need the feeling of protection and confidence in the future. You can give that feeling to the lady, so your rate on the dating market is still high. Now you understand the specialties of women's psychology, unlike younger men, you know how to listen to your lady and be romantic in small details that are so dear to most women. You know what type of woman can make you happy and you do not want to spend time on empty talks so you are ready to act;) Starting dating from such a conscious position means being successful very quickly! You can check our Success Stories and see how many senior couples are happy now with our help!