Find out secret to a happy marriage
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Do not delay the wedding
This point concerns men, although there are such ladies who "rule" in relationships and prefer to take the initiative into their own hands. According to research by American scientists, the number 3 is a kind of benchmark. If a couple has been dating for about three years, then they have every chance to build a strong family. But if even after so many years of relationship the chosen one did not dare to present "that very ring", then, alas, his intentions regarding the lady are not so serious, and he is still in search of his ideal person. And according to experts, couples who got married after 32 years have a chance to get divorced in the very first years of marriage. And all because at this age a person has already developed certain habits, with which not everyone can come to terms.
Don't get married before 23
According to a 2016 study by the same American scientists, people who decided to live together or get married before the age of 23 split up in almost 70% of cases. The reason for this, oddly enough, was, among other things, getting an education. Experts explain that those young people who had only secondary or secondary specialized education dispersed much more often than those lovers who had higher or incomplete higher education.
The partner about your age
Research from 2014 provides statistics that the larger the age gap between spouses, the higher the likelihood that they will divorce. In addition, many experts assure that young ladies who choose an older man for their life companions lose their attractiveness over time and begin to look much older than their age. But the men, in such a union, on the contrary, start to look younger. Next to a young lady, they bloom and begin to feel much more confident.
Don't spend all your savings on a luxurious huge diamond ring
An expensive wedding, like a luxurious ring, is not really a guarantee of a long life together. Scientists analyzed the relationships of many women and men and came to the conclusion that lovers, who, for example, spent from 500 thousand to 1 million rubles on a wedding, in 46% of cases soon filed for divorce. But those who were ready to organize a wedding, say, for 300 thousand, divorced only in 17% of cases. Psychologists say the same goes for the choice of a wedding ring. In their opinion, the larger and more luxurious the stone, the more likely a divorce is.
Choose a calm and balanced person as your companion
Scientists from the University of Chicago have found that a mentally healthy, balanced person can provide a decent life for the chosen one, which means that marriage with that person will last for many years.